netinet/tcp.h: add TCP_NLA_* values up to linux v5.12
TCP_NLA_EDT was new in v5.9, see
linux commit 48040793fa6003d211f021c6ad273477bcd90d91
tcp: add earliest departure time to SCM_TIMESTAMPING_OPT_STATS
TCP_NLA_TTL is new in v5.12, see
linux commit e7ed11ee945438b737e2ae2370e35591e16ec371
tcp: add TTL to SCM_TIMESTAMPING_OPT_STATS