adapt build of arm memcpy asm not to use .sub files
this depends on commit 9f5eb77992b42d484d69e879d24ef86466f20f21, which
made it possible to use a .c file for arch-specific replacements, and on
commit 2f853dd6b9a95d5b13ee8f9df762125e0588df5d, the out-of-tree build
support, which made it so that src/*/$(ARCH)/* 'replacement' files get
used even if they don't match the base name of a .c file in the parent
directory.